Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Hazy



I've gone to write this post I don't know how many times and just couldn't. The last ten days have just been a blur for me. I started off doing really well- my laundry was caught up, the dishes were done, the playroom was FINALLY clean. It was easy to maintain and my mood was improved. On Thursday my sister and I took a guilt free trip to Anchorage to see and movie and visit my sick Grandma. I knew she was going downhill, but she has been for months. I'm SO glad that she got to see Sweetie Pie and Little Man and that I told her I loved her. Friday and Saturday were horrible- I sat around moping just waiting for "the call". By Sunday she was gone... reunited with my Grandpa in Heaven.

I'm so relieved that she is no longer suffering, but sad that my kids will hardly remember her, much less know her lively spirit. I've been trying to keep up with the chores as well as I can, but it's hard when I just want to curl up and cry. I literally think of her every minute, of every day. I think of how she loved sparkly red shoes, college football, and potato chips for dinner... hmmm, I never connected that, but I'm sure she's the key to my snack cravings! It just seems weird to be here on Earth without her.

4 Thoughts From Others:

Amanda said...

I'm sorry for your loss. my prayers go out to you and your family

Kimi Jo said...

Times like these are hard, I know. No words of wisdom here, just that I'm so sorry. :`(

Shell said...

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

I understand all to well the desire to curl up and cry (and have done exactly that) but I want to tell you - stick with your routines - let them help get you through this time of grief.

It will help in many ways...I promise.

macksgirl (jess) said...

I'm so sorry for you loss Gillian. I'm here if you need anything. Find my info on facebook if you need to. ((((HUGS))))

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